How can you personally change for a better World?

Changing the World starts with yourself. Being nice and kind to yourself during difficulties is important, as you don't get down. And do forgive yourself also if something goes wrong. Mistakes can be made and you just need to learn from it. But being nice and kind helps people around you as well, as it might actually be that little thing someone else simply needs. Being there for others and giving a helping hand, can make such a difference. What kind of influence do you personally have on this World, and how can companies help in this?

The influence that you have

What you do has influence on your direct surrounding. Friends, family and people at work directly feel what you think or do. But also others who you encounter during a day time, are influenced. You might not know it, but simply by ignoring a homeless person on the street, can make them feel unappreciated or worse. Not showing interest, not being bothered with others feelings and only showing interest in yourself, can make others feel bad. Even if you do show interest it still depends on what you say or do, what kind of impact you will have on someone else. Everyone is carrying some baggage of which you don't have any knowledge. So one might feel bad already (but isn't showing it), but your actions or words can work like a sword and cut their motivation. It shows that you can make or break someone else's day. You can not change the World by yourself, but you can change the World of one person by being nice. That is the power that you carry with you everyday! And thus you can use that power in a positive way, everyday as well.

Influence of forgiving

In this world it is important to forgive abundantly, as it releases your tension with others. Forgiving is something you do for others but also for yourself. But in order to forgive, there for sure must be a reason to forgive them. Something must have happened in the past - or your past life - resulting the problems that you have now. So you need to do something about that. If you do good and bad in your life to others, then it will come back in your life or your next life. But forgiving or saying sorry to someone can actually resolve this kind of karma issue, and thus it won't come back in your life. Also you can forgive at distance, without seeing them. Use your full intent by a method of praying telling you forgive them or say sorry for what you did. It releases the tension at distance, and mostly health-problems will reduce in time. Next to this you can get rid of karma by learning from your mistakes, and being the best person you can be. So think good, talk good and do good are the basics here. But this also comes with a warning. What if you forgive people for something that they haven't done. Then there might be the possibility of them using this free-card to do the thing to you at which you have forgiven them in advance. This is like a backward karma creation, and must be avoided at all cost. So be careful as well when you forgive. 

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Being nice and kind

Just a smile, a friendly face, a nice remark or giving a little something to a stranger, can have great impact. There seems to be lack of this a lot these days. People are influenced in a negative way by things happening in the World and one actually feels it in ones wallet. During difficult and hard times, the group of people having problems gradually is growing. This situation seems to be hard to handle for the many, as we try to survive ourselves. But even then you should try to make the best of it, and the best way to do it is by being nice and kind. Others have many problems to overcome and your help might be that little push they need to keep going. Make a change by helping others, be nice and kind or give a helping hand.

What can companies do to change?

Many companies hire people at low wages, but rake in big profits. And the question here is how much profit is enough for these companies, whilst their staff hardly can come around. This seems to be a very serious situation, as the workers don't seem to be paid fairly for their hard work. Without the workers, that company wouldn't make any profit and thus it is logical to reward them for it. For me it is hard to understand that hard-working people are punished for hard work whilst their managers and directors swim in money. And in many cases the owner of these companies are proud of it as well. This example actually shows one of the seven Deadly sins, namely Pride. There are two types of pride. One is the good one, one has worked hard and shares the profits with the helpers and has pride of their accomplishments. The other one is the bad one. One is proud of the company but doesn't share their wealth with those who actually have earned it. Such companies you can find everywhere and are examples of how it shouldn't be done. But companies can change their attitude for the better. By rewarding the workers fairly, by stimulating families, by giving others opportunities and for instance provide food and shelter for those in need. The rich don't have to become more rich while others don't know how to make it to their next paycheck. Equality can start at any company for sure. In this I would like you to remember, that if other companies don't do it, doesn't mean that your company shouldn't. You as a company should recognize the importance of your staff and their surrounding, by helping wherever you can.

Basic income for a better World

It is very important to create equality for everyone everywhere on Earth. This means the same means, same opportunities, same help and so on. A widely discussed method is basic income. With this everyone gets money from the state enough to have a roof over their heads and food in their stomach. It results in a enormous boost of equality and solves many problems instantly (such as homelessness, health problems, partly crime) and stimulates opportunities for everyone. Such a system should be used to solve basic problems in our society and can be provided for those who need it urgently. This can be implemented now to help the poor and roofless person immediately. I am not suggesting that basic income should be implemented now for everyone, but I am suggesting to use basic income now for those in need and with this I do believe that the profits for society as a whole are more then the cost of basic income itself. Use basic income to solve urgent problems in this World now, so that we can start to Change collectively!

We aren't the first species reaching for the stars

For thousands of years mankind has been gazing up to the stars, and now we do have the opportunity to reach for them as well. It seems to be the normal way of evolution to start exploring the universe. But we need to think about how we do that and when we do it. You might say we can reach for the stars already, but can we really? We might be able to do it from our technological knowledge in a few decades, but there is more that we need to prepare. Aliens will instantly know what we are about, by just scanning our leaky mind. So if we live in peace, in equality and everyone has the same chances with opportunities, then we make a good impression, but if there is much inequality, starvation, wars and de-location of people then do we still make a good impression? 

Humanity has just arrived

It would be very selfish to state that we are the first species reaching for the stars. Our galaxy is billions of years old and there are also billions of stars and exoplanets that potentially have intelligent life. And they might have evolved millions of years before humans have. So they have reached for the stars, whilst earth still was trying to survive with dinosaurs. Regarding exploring the galaxy and reaching for the stars, humanity has just been born and we still don't know how to act and how to use appropriate technologies. But at the same time aliens have been through it all. They have evolved into logic based friendly extraterrestrials. I specifically say this, that they are logical and kind, as it is the obvious way for intelligent life to evolve. I will explain.

Logic based thinking

When a species evolves, there will be a point in time when they would have looked and analyzed their own methods or reacting to problems. An example is human emotion and how these emotions influence decision making. Many decisions we make are based on emotions alone, and in many cases these decisions are bad ones. Think of decisions made out of love, fear or hate which can have disastrous consequences. If one takes control of ones emotions, then these negative consequences can be avoided altogether. For this you need to get into a state of mind where you feel emotions come and go, but they don't influence how you think or how you act. When you are able to do that, then you can make decisions which purely are based on logic. Aliens most likely have evolved through this as well, and thus their decision making purely is based on logic. If we want humans to be able to talk with aliens, then we need to take emotions out of the equation, aka we need to learn how to make good decisions based on logic without being lead by emotions. This doesn't mean we can't be emotional, but we need to separate decisions from emotions.

Aliens are benign

I assure you, you don't have to be afraid of aliens and that has a good reason. Aliens have just like us once been in the situation to reach for the stars, but also for them the question arose what to do if they would encounter hostile aliens. With this there are two options to occur:

• they feared such an encounter and thus they would take appropriate measures to protect themselves;
• they did explore the universe and consequently encountered aliens. But they met hostile aliens which ended badly and thus they won't want to repeat that situation by protection.

The obvious question is how would they protect themselves? You might say with weaponry, and they most likely have it as a last resort simply for protection. But this isn't the primary way to protect oneself. They would use stealth aka come in secret without the visited species knowing about it. That way they know for sure they are protected and can determine in safety if the new species is benign or hostile. In that case there are also two options occurring:

• the visited species is considered hostile. In this case they simply would let that species alone;
• the visited species is considered benign. Here lies the opportunity for the aliens. They would make first contact and most likely would invite the new species to join the alien society.

This last point has many advantages. The good aliens would be a growing group of good species, sharing their technologies and knowledge. It is the best way to defend oneself as a benign species against threats. The hostile aliens on the other hand would not get the opportunity to join the alien society and thus wouldn't have all the advantages. The hostile aliens would develop very slow and their numbers would be minimal compared to the benign alien group. From this we can stipulate that aliens are benign, friendly and kind.

Humans have to change

Previous two reasons show what aliens are like. They make decisions based on logic and reasoning, and they are kind. Now you can say, we are like that for sure. Then I would ask you: "Are we really kind and are we really logical?". To answer this question you must open your eyes and see what is going on this World. And the message you see, isn't a good one. There have been Wars in many countries, people have been chased out of their homes and countries, there is poverty everywhere with a small rich group not caring about the rest. If an alien would see this happen, then what would they think? Would they think we are friendly and kind, or would they think we are difficult, unfair, hostile and armed to the teeth? I guess you know the answer to that yourself. We are considered the hostile aliens here and from that point of view the aliens wouldn't want to do anything with us. So per definition we are separated from the good alien group, unless we change. An additional problem is that we use emotional based thought and decisions made from that in many cases are faulty. If we really want to communicate with aliens, then we need to use logic without the emotional factor. This would mean we need to train in having equanimity so that decisions aren't based on our emotions.

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Can mankind learn from its mistakes and are you complicit?

If one makes a mistake, then one is supposed to learn from it as well. But is that actually going on in this World. Do we learn from our mistakes? That is a good question. It seems like that things happening in this World are taken for granted and consequences are swallowed without any argument. People don't seem to care about what is going on and that can end in an awful and painful situation. If the World doesn't learn from its mistakes and repeats it, then we are doomed to fail as a society. Can mankind learn from its mistakes or is this how far we can get?

War after war

Both World Wars have ended in millions of deaths, but the second World-war has ended by using nuclear bombs. From that point on Earth has lived in a status quo with constant wars being fought in far places creating much problems, mayhem and disturbance. Even you will feel the consequences of the latest War happening and it doesn't look like it will end nicely. The chance is high that mankind will repeat it's mistakes again, by using nuclear mass-destruction weaponry on its own citizens.

One time isn't a mistake, but ...

A mistake is a mistake, only if it happens once. If a mistake happens twice then it must be considered a decision. This as people need to learn from one's mistakes so that it doesn't happen again. And luckily till this day nuclear weapons haven't been used in order to destroy one and another (expect for testing it). But if at the end of the last war we use nuclear weapons again, then we signal that we haven't learned from what has happened at the end of WWII. Ending WWII with nuclear bombs must be seen as a mistake as we can not understand what consequences these weaponry can have. But if we start using it again, then we are all complicit.

Are we the people complicit?

People who push the button, people who work for that army and people who decide on what happens must be complicit of the things happening. Wars are fought out because people at the top decide it has to be done that way. So they obviously are complicit in it. But that doesn't give all other people a clean sheet. If you know that this seems to be happening, then you ought to do something about it as well. Change the World and stop this foolishness! If we know that something is going to happen, but we do nothing about it then we are complicit as well. Doing nothing when you actually should do something is one of the Seven Deadly Sins aka Sloth. Just by looking at the sideline whilst others are fighting and you can do something about it, means that you are complicit. So then we need to do something as well about this current situation in the World. And you can help.

What can you do for mankind?

We need to show that there is another way in ending this bad situation on Earth. Compassion, understanding, love and hope should be the four cornerstones on which our future must be build. And thus we must change and you can change by doing the right thing. This can be in your personal life by helping those in need or just giving a smile, but it can also be done by spreading the Word for Change. We need to put the Kind back into Mankind as without the kind part only man remains. So we need to help one and another, and we need to change collectively. But as the World situation seems to be very urgent, then we need to act quickly and now. We need to stand up and stand out by making our position clear that we want Change in this World and that we want it now. Without change our World is doomed and thus the only hope we have is by giving an alternative message to the World. Spreading the good Word is necessary so that you and I can enjoy a brighter future by Changing this World now.

Without change the Earth is doomed, create a brighter future

There are many things going on in the World that seem to be worsening and everything seems to be maximizing. A few years ago we only saw some crisis, but these days the crises are accumulating in a big bundle of many resulting in an expected maximum aka end-date. You can see and feel it all around you, just open the newspapers and you can read about it. So if there is an end-date to this Earth then that would mean the World is doomed. And if we don't do anything about it, then the doom-scenario will come true. So why does it seem that we are doomed, and can we do anything about it to prevent the ending?

We are doomed has a reason

Everything that happens in this World is happening for a reason. From about 2008 the crises have been growing in severity and in number, and thus gradually the World has been changing into a strange and weird place. And from my point of view this has meaning. This must be considered as an end-point in our timeline on this Earth, unless we can change for the better. So what is happening in this World as we speak, is actually a warning for things to come. You might not nice it, but the World has gradually been step-stoning into a more and worse situation with crisis getting worse and potential nuclear worldwide destruction at hand. As everything seems to be going this way, then this must have reason. And I think that we as mankind need to learn from this situation, by changing our ways.

We need to learn

It looks like we are in a very serious situation with potential destruction ahead. But I do think it is a warning, so we need to learn from the warning and act on it. So what is the warning and what do we learn from it. It is the end-point that must interest us, as it is the usage of nuclear weaponry which is an acting and reacting situation with bomb coming from both/all sides. In this case it doesn't matter if this World is a simulation or not, it simply needs to be stopped from happening. If not, then we only have hardship to look forward to. So learn from this situation and act on it as well by sharing this information.

People don't seem to care

As this World has been changing step by step into a worst case scenario, but it has happened in a very steady pace without it bothering you too much. It shows that you gradually get used to the new situation, and before you are used to it another change aka worsening of the situation has shown itself. As it changes in small steps, then people do not care and get used to it. And that is a big problem, citizens don't seem to care, don't do anything about it and just accept it. So from that point of view you actually are agreeing with it happening. But you need to get out of the trance that everything will be fine, as it won't be. Without us reacting and taking action, then this World does come to the expected ending. So take charge with me and Change our World, and we need to change instantly.

What do we need to do for a brighter future?

It is obvious that we need to stop the Wars escalating into nuclear Worldwide War, and everything points out for this to happen. So we need to act and we need to change. Most importantly we need to spread this message so that a growing group of people know and understand this outcome, and we need to try to reach the top so that they can be persuaded into not acting foolish by pushing the button. The wars need to stop, soldiers need to drop their weapons on both sides and need to go home. After that we need to disarm all nuclear weaponry so that we can create a better future for ourselves without getting pushed into the worst case scenario. Please be brave and help create a brighter future for all of mankind.

Our World must change for a nicer future, the Alien argument

For decades already Earth has been living one push of a button away from total destruction. Nuclear weaponry, constant war and de-location of people everywhere seem to be the standard of how we do things here. And it influences everyone all around the World. If we would be visited by aliens now - for the consideration of joining their galactic society - then they obviously would refuse us for sure, just by looking what is going on on this planet. Our message that we signal is a bad one and that needs to change before it is too late. And time is running out. How do we need to change for a better future?

Disarm nuclear bombs

Within my long discussion on the Alien Assessment of nuclear armed Earth, I already stated that we most likely already are under judgment by aliens as we speak. They have seen our position within the fast galaxy at the end of WWII already, as we signaled our existence clearly. We used nuclear bombs to end the war with Japan. As there is the possibility that nuclear explosions can change the bending of spacetime a little bit, then this change is noticeable for advanced galactic scanning. This means at the end of WWII aliens already noticed us. But as we used mass-destruction weapons they obviously considered us as hostile aliens, and thus they came to check-up on us in stealth. This means they came to look what was going on here, without us noticing them. And then Roswell happened! At this point we are in a very dangerous situation. Without change this World is doomed, as all the warning signs are out there for us to notice. So we need to change by signaling. It means that we must prevent the doom-scenario at first. The best way to do this is to Stop war and disarm all nuclear weaponry on Earth. As aliens see us as One species then all countries need to comply with the disarmament. And I see this as the primary argument to change the World and to be able to get into contact with aliens.

Change how we rule the World

The problem with some of the politicians and some of the World leaders, is that they are self-centered, have much eager for power, are manipulative and are obsessed with extreme wealth. These are qualities which are unfitting for a better new future. Ruling this World needs to be done from reasoning and logic, without the personal gain and emotional decisions. The leaders of the future need to fight for an improved Earth and make this World a better place for all citizens. Thus those leaders need to have logic and compassion for this World without being influenced by financial stimuli. I for sure would suggest that future leaders need to demonstrate that they can lead by having equanimity. This means being calm in the mind in every situation aka steadiness of the mind under stress and it's a quality that needs to be taught on every level. Only those who have passed equanimity (in the extreme) can lead this World in a body that makes the correct decisions for a better, improved and honest future.

Change how we treat our species

Treat others the same way as you want to be treated is one of the most important rules there is. But we should put this on the alien agenda, as aliens would see us like that. It is the primary signal in how they expect us to treat them as well. So if we use mass-destruction weapons on our own citizens, then that is a good argument for aliens to do the same with us. But it is also a good argument for aliens to expect us to do the same with them. Simply using nuclear bombs in any form, is a sign that we want to be treated like that and a sign that we will treat you like that. And this is the signal that aliens for sure will use to determine if a species is benign or hostile. If you take away nuclear bombs and war, then the World would look like a complete other place which could be trusted by aliens. Instead of fear, anger and threats there would be logic, understanding and hope. If we change how we treat our own species, then that can be seen as the greatest starting point in history. It is the stepping-stone that we as Earthlings need to make / achieve before we can start to explore the galaxy contacting other species.

Change yourself

On a small scale, you yourself can make a difference for sure. Many people already have the urge and feeling to be nice and kind, but that isn't how many other people do things. In this ignorance isn't a bliss, because if the World doesn't think this over then aliens will consider this as the problem. If you see there is a problem, then you need to understand the problem and take action. Only words don't change anything, the World needs action. And this is what you can do. Be positive in all situations, be kind to all, and help wherever you can. In this you need to remember that what you say or do, has influence on other people's life, as you do not know what others are going through. A bad remark or doing a bad thing can have disastrous consequences for someone else. By shifting your mood to the positive side always, you can have great influence on other people for sure. So be kind, nice and honest in order to change the World around you. Also you can help, by changing your ways and do the right thing. I would like to remind you that: If other people don't do it, doesn't mean it is wrong. They might simply not see there is a better way yet. And so it is up to you to make that change. You can change the World by setting an example!

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Humans want to reach for the stars, why do we need change?

Humans are fascinated by the stars and how our planet revolves around the Sun and how our solar system interacts with the galaxy. Especially the idea that there might be alien life outside our planet, seems to be fascinating for many. It is the origin of many Hollywood movies, but sadly with the depiction of hostile aliens. We gaze up to the stars expecting to find amazing things on exoplanets and other being or entities. We cannot start to imagine what is up there and thus we want to find out. So if we start to explore the stars and exoplanets, then can we expect aliens out there and are they friendly?

Are there aliens?

In our galaxy alone, there are billions of stars with every star potentially having planets. For the sake of argument if every star has an average of 4 planets around them, then what is the change of having life. Say on 0.01% has life, then there would be 4*1,000,000,000*0.01% = 400,000 planets with life. And if only 0.1% of those planets with life have intelligent life, then there still would be 400,000*0.1% = 400 planets per 1 billion planets with intelligent life. This means there is a good chance that there are planets with sentient beings who eventually in there evolution have been looking up to the stars and think what is up there? And as they might have evolved thousands or millions of years before us, then there obvious will be aliens with more advanced technologies who already have reached for the stars. In this perspective Earthlings have just put the first step on the galactic evolutionary ladder. And with their advanced technologies they most likely can scan the universe for abnormalities indicating life. This means that they already have detected our presence within the galaxy.

They know what we think

Intelligent aliens for sure would use reasoning and logic in any form for making up their minds. We humans in almost all cases use emotions to make up our minds, but many decisions made with emotions such as love or fear are wrong decisions. And so logic dictates that aliens would have evolved out of emotional decision making into logical decision making. And it is with this logical thinking that they will judge other species such as Earthlings. The most basic method for aliens to see if other species are benign or hostile is by looking at how they treat their own species. Benign species treat each-other with dignity, equality and peace, but hostile species can use mass destruction weaponry on their own. If we want to reach for the stars and encounter them, then they simply scan our leaky brain and know how we treat our own kind. So aliens would know instantly that we are benign or hostile. They know what we think, just by listening to our thoughts.

Aliens are friendly

In their evolution, aliens would also have gazed up the sky with awe to know what is up there. But just like us, they would have had the fear as well to encounter species with hostile intent. And they actually might have encountered bad species as well and decided not to have anything to do with hostile species like that again. And thus they would search for alien life, in stealth. If they would find benign species, they would make first contact so that they can join them. But if they would encounter hostile species, they wouldn't make contact at all. So this means that there is a growing group of friendly aliens out there, and a small separated group of bad aliens. And as the good group works together then they have all the advantages. This means that the chance is very high that if we encounter aliens, then it would be with friendly intent.

Are we friendly?

How we act on Earth defines if we are considered benign or hostile. Many people believe in love and peace, and that would be the message that we should spread. But there are also people who only seek power and prospect for themselves, which in many cases results in war. And this is the signal that we send out to them. We are fighting each-other all the time and potentially can use nuclear weaponry. This situation as an act, can only be interpreted as hostile. And as we treat our own species like this, then aliens can only expect that we will treat them the same way.

We need to change on Earth already

As aliens will know, then there is no need for us to reach for the stars now. You only see the news about what happens on this Earth and how people treat each-other to understand that we need to change and must change now. If we want to meet aliens, then we need to make a very positive first impression. And that impression for sure would be a very bad one at this moment. The World has many crises with potentially nuclear war at our horizon. That must be prevented at all cost, as such an act will set us back into the stone age for sure. But if we stand up together and make a voice for Change then that could have an impact. And we need to change now, as - looking at the World events - time has run out!

How can we make a good first impression?

Institutions like NASA, UN as an example should stand up for equality and the same chances for everyone, and a World without poverty, homelessness, hunger. If these organizations only want to seek power, without changing the World as well for the better, then we still would make a very poor impression. It is amazing that we can land space aircraft's on the Moon, Mars or Venus, but we cannot help our own people from starvation and disrespect. So if we really want to make a good impression, then we need to change, and we need to change now. These and other organizations should work together in improving life on Earth for everybody first. And if in many decades we have our Earth in order, then we can reach for the stars making first contact with aliens.

How can Mankind Change for the better?

We want to have a peaceful World, and we want to reach for the Stars. But before we can reach for the stars, we need to change this place that we are living in first. There are unmistakably many things wrong with this World and everyone can see it by just looking at the news. But also how people treat each-other is a big sign on some of the essential problems of this system. Mankind doesn't seem to be kind anymore, and that has to Change as time seems to be running out. Why is it important for people to change now, and how must mankind change for the better?

Time is running out

From about 2008 and on everything on Earth seems to have become strange and weird with currently crises accumulating into a maximum. Obviously that maximum is almost here and it can only end in destruction... The only option that we have is to change ourselves, so that this maximum point never happens. Time is running out as we speak and thus we need to act quickly. Change can be quick if everyone understands that there is an end-point in this time-frame. So how do we do that and why is it necessary?

Signaling

It looks like that mankind can not change for itself, as people do not see there is a higher reason for change. But if we want to reach for the stars in our galaxy, and aliens actually are out there then we should show them that we come in peace. And the best way to show this is by signaling. This signaling must start on our planet already, as they will know what we are all about just by scanning our minds. So how do we signal? We start by changing ourselves, by doing the right thing.

Nuclear weaponry

The biggest concern from an Alien point of view is the nuclear arsenal that we possess and the power that it gives us. But it is considered as a very bad thing, as nuclear weaponry are used for mass-destruction. If our species is capable of destroying our own citizens with these kinds of weapons, then we most certainly can destroy aliens in the same way. By disarming all our nuclear weapons, we signal that we have changed and that we come in peace. It is the biggest and probably the only correct signal that we can give, so that aliens know that we have changed. By doing this we can survive the current maximization of crises, and it most likely is the only way.

Respect

Every person on this planet, in essential is the same. We all have a brain, all have a heart and thus we are the same. We should respect one and another, smile and be kind. But this is a quality that only the few have. If someone needs our help, then we should give a helping hand. But in most cases people just walk past the homeless or poor person in disrespect. This as one seems to be feeling much better than the other. The same goes with the disrespect the rich seem to show the poor, and this inequality seems to be growing constantly. This is the opposite of the natural state a good society should be working on. Equality and the same chances for everyone are essential in creating a better society.

Kindness

Being kind is necessary for the continuity of a society. It is the only way for mankind to survive and thus we must focus on this quality and its development. Being kind, having respect, being nice to everyone is essential and for this mankind needs to change. Without kindness mankind will be doomed. And this is exactly what this World is about. The maximization of crises is only a signal to us to show that time is running out, unless we change for the better by being kind. Having kindness towards everybody is important, as you do not know what someone else is going through. Your respect of disrespect through your actions or spoken word can make or break a person's day. So what you think, say or do influences other people greatly. Being kind is the only way for mankind to evolve into a better species.

Treat others like you want to be treated

Everyone wants to be treated well, good and nice. This is a quality that you should try to give in all situations, even if others don't do it. Eventually they will change for the better. By doing good to others, results in them getting into a better emotional state which leads to them showing a better attitude. So being good is just like a droplet in water. It starts as a single droplet with influence circles around it. But when another person picks up this positivity then they can influence others in a positive way as well. If you want others to treat you nice, then you should start to treat others nice as well. It is a give and take situation. But if no-one gives, then no-one takes. You can change this, start by being nice and start by noticing people in need or help. With a small gesture, a talk or a smile you can have influence on someone's life in a positive way.

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Why do we need to be Kind to Aliens?

The main argument to bring the Kind back into Mankind, is from the point of view that we are being judged as we speak. And we are under judgment by Aliens. You do not know this as you cannot see this, but they are here. So what is the reason for mankind being judged by Aliens right now, why do I believe that they come in peace and how do we go from there?

Why are we under judgment?

We have signaled to the universe in the past by using a nuclear test bomb at first, then one on Hiroshima and one on Nagasaki. These were our signal to the universe that humans are here on this planet and it was detected! They came here, but as we used nuclear weaponry, they came in stealth and in fear. Logic dictates that we should be very cautious with hostile aliens, and we are the ones considered hostile. As they came here and saw us being armed to the teeth, they put us under judgment. The judgment is about whether we can join their alien galactic society or not. But as we don't seem to change or are too stubborn, then their judgment will continue until the last moment. And that we need to change is obvious, as the maximum in the current World affairs is of destruction.

Why can't we see them?

They fear our actions! You might ask, why do they fear us as we clearly fear them? We only fear them as we are unaware of things to come. But if you set aside the unknown and set aside your basic instincts aka your emotions, then only logic remains. And they do fear us, for our potential of destruction. But it is also their logic that dictates that we cannot see them. They are here in stealth, but that doesn't mean it is a bad thing for us. We still are being judged and thus we still have the opportunity to do the right thing. But it is up to us for sure. They won't show themselves until the point that we start signaling the expected thing, which is Kindness.

They come in peace

As stated in the Alien Assessment of nuclear armed Earth, the chance is very high that if there are aliens around, then they come in peace. We are used to Hollywood movies depicting a violent entry of aliens, who only have interest in harvesting this planet and then go on. If they are here and this would be the case, then we wouldn't be speaking right now. But there is another important reason why they come in peace. They have been around for a long time already - as can be expected in this fast and a million year old galaxy - and thus they have very advanced technologies and have made contact with other societies. But with them reaching to the stars, they would have come in contact with hostile aliens as well. From that they learned and thus they would come in stealth before making first contact. They would want to know at first hand if the alien society is benign or dangerous. If they see that the new society is benign then they can join their alien galactic society. But if they are hostile then they cannot join. This is the main argument that a bigger growing group of extraterrestrial societies must consist of benign aliens, with the hostile group of aliens remaining small. So the chance is very high that they will come in peace, as they most likely come from the big benign alien group.

So what do we need to do?

Earthlings need to understand that there is nothing to fear. If aliens would come here or are already here, then they would come in stealth aka we couldn't see them at first. This as they want to protect themselves and need to be sure what we are all about. They would be looking for signs that we are a benign and kind society. Currently we have many problems on Earth as crises seem to be maximizing everywhere, with wars in many places and people dislocating from their homes. Obviously these are signals that they will interpret as not good. We do not treat our citizens in a proper or respectful way, and thus they will expect us to do the same with them. So we need to put the Kind back into Mankind, by being nice and kind again. It is important for us to disarm all nuclear weaponry and never use them again. Next to that we need to try help everyone on this planet, wherever they are.

Be kind!

People use the basic rule: "treat others the same way as you want to be treated". And I agree very much on this point of view. If you want to be treated nice by others, then you should start to do so as well. But this goes also for the bigger picture. If - as stated - Aliens are here right now then we as a species must show them how we will treat them, by treating our own citizens in the best way. If the Aliens see that we are Kind and non-threatening, then they will be Kind to us as well. But if they see us armed to the teeth and prepared to push the button, then they will remain distant. You wouldn't come close to a barking dog as well. So if humanity has goals to reach for the stars, then we need to show an open and kind society to them. Man needs to change by being nice again!

The Galactic War that shaped our Solar System:

Let's put the kind back in Mankind

Everyone knows that being positive, has a good influence on people around us. But being positive and a good person isn't a quality that everyone of us has. This can be due to bad things happening in a person's life, trauma's or continual being influenced in a negative way. And this is exactly what the World seems to be doing in these times of uncertainty. Crises seem to be pounding on the world constantly and obviously have a negative effect on the mental state of people. "Positivity is the practice of being or tendency to be positive or optimistic in attitude" and this positivity needs to be practiced in order to become optimistic again. How can positivity help people in becoming a good person and how can one's emotional control with actions help us and others surrounding us? 

Table of contents

Having a positive vibe

How can equanimity help?

How do you react to an angry person?

Being in control of yourself

Mankind doesn't seem to be nice anymore and has lost the kind part. Being positive and kind to others is the main ingredients for humans to be able to live in peace together. It is necessary for all humans on Earth to be able to live together. How can  you personally change for a better future and how can you do it better for yourself and your surrounding by being nice, thinking good, talking good and doing good?

Having a positive vibe

Positiveness works like a dimple caused by a stone thrown in water. If you are positive, kind and fair, then this vibe has a positive influence on the people surrounding you. Then these people also get more positive resulting in a spreading of kindness. Obviously this is easier said than done as the World seems to be in a continual state of negativeness. And that is exactly what we need to change. Being kind is the essential being of humans, but many seem to have forgotten this part of the word mankind. Without the kind part there only remains man and that is something that we must prevent at all cost, by being gentle, kind and having friendliness with everyone around us in every situation.

"You can actually see or feel your emotional state come and go, as your mind and body tries to react on a specific situation".

Being a good person

If you want to be a good person, then you need to be consistent with how you react and what you do. The basic with this would be: thinking good, talking good and doing good. 

Thinking good

The best way to react on a situation is by thinking before reacting. If you have thought about a situation then in most cases you don't do anything which you shouldn't. Just thinking for five or more seconds can give you the wisdom to do the correct thing. Impulse reactions on situations can result in doing the wrong thing and thus it is better to think before doing (this also goes for split-second decisions such as in dangerous situations, but most often our instinct jumps into action). 

Talking good

"Words are more powerful than a sword".  Anything that you say, can have a positive or a negative effect on others. With this it is especially wise to remember that you do not know, what others are going through. What you say can actually make or break someone for that day, but what you say can also change how others think as well. So you can change someone's thinking by what you are saying. As words can be a very powerful tool in specific circumstances, then you must know how to use your words and understand completely the message that you try say. Talking good can make someone's day, but talking bad can brake it which potentially can have devastating consequences. For this reason you should speak clearly and positively with all that you encounter or meet everyday.

Doing good

Thinking good and talking good will lead to doing good as well. What we say and do reflects on who we are as a person. But in many cases just words aren't enough. Like politicians who say or promise something but do the opposite instead. This means that words need to be followed with actions. If something is said or promised but you don't do anything about it, then those words have been in vain. So doing good means acting good, but it also means learning from your mistakes. You are just human and can make mistakes, but if a wrong mistake is repeated constantly then that would mean a concrete decision to do so. You must and can make mistakes, so that you learn from it and thus don't repeat the mistake again. That is the only way to become a good person. When you understand how to do good, then you see opportunities in every daily life to do so.

"As your positiveness comes in a natural way, then this will reflect automatically in your actions as well".

How can equanimity help?

The way people react to others mainly depends on the person's emotional state. People have many kinds of emotions such as trust, joy, anticipation, anger, disgust, sadness, surprise or fear. From these emotional states a person can react on a person accordingly. But if you have control over these emotional states or are aware that you are influenced by these states, then you can do something about it. A useful method to cope with your emotional state is controlling it with equanimity. This is "a mental calmness, composure, and evenness of temper, especially in a difficult situation". It means that you try to stay focused during any of your emotional states. You can actually see or feel your emotional state come and go, as your mind and body tries to react on a specific situation. If you have this control then you can remain positive as emotions can come and go, without interfering with your state of mind.

How do you react to an angry person?

Most common reaction is being angry or having an emotional state resulting in anger. As someone is angry, it means that they do not have control over their own emotions. A thing that you should remember is that you shouldn't try to convince or argue with someone who is in this emotional state as they will not listen to reason. So the focus when you are confronted with an angry person (such as an angry customer) should be on listening and showing understanding in order for them to drain their anger. If you show in that state that you are trying to help them, then their anger will go away or get less. While listening you can try to think of a solution for their current problem. If you are in a relationship and your partner is angry, then the most effective way is to just be quiet without being judgemental. Things said during an angry state in most cases weren't meant like that, and thus shouldn't be taken seriously. Just let it be and it will pass quickly for sure. Do not get into their emotional state, which obviously will worsen the situation. Remaining neutral is essential in order for others to drain their anger, whilst you shouldn't take it personally. You can compare this with water and fire. If one has a temper like fire but the other remains like water, then the fire will be drained away aka will be put out. When this situation re-occurs regularly, then the intensity of it will reduce and gradually the frequency of their emotional state will reduce as well.

Being in control of yourself

The best way to be positive is to have control of your emotions and emotional state. If you can distance yourself from the emotions, then you can see them come and go. It gives you freedom to make decisions and take actions without being interfered or lead by emotions. This also gives you the opportunity to take action as a good person. Thinking, talking and doing good are a simple consequence of your positive mental state. With this comes the responsibility in acting good as well, but as your positiveness comes in a natural way, then this will reflect automatically in your actions as well. As you are positive and act like it, then this will have a positive effect on others around you and so being a positive person can have a dimpling effect resulting in others surrounding you getting positive as well. Let's make the World positive again by being a good person!